Years ago I had a close friend who suffered from clinical depression
after losing a job and a longtime girlfriend all in the same week. He answered
those challenges by shutting himself into his apartment, drawing the drapes
closed and answering neither the door nor the telephone. The situation went on
for a whole week where he did not eat and remained secluded until those close
to him began to worry about his welfare. He finally relented to open his door
to his father only after it was a surety he would breach the bedroom window
with the screwdriver he held. Thankfully he was able to receive the help he
needed to mend his sense of loss and hopelessness toward his future. Many who
suffer from mental illness are not as fortunate as my close friend leading to dire
and sometimes fatal consequences. The main character in Herman Melville’s “Bartleby,
the Scrivener”, although fictitious, is just one of those lonely souls who
repel assistance and suffer a deteriorating existence as a result.
Photo taken from wikimedia commons
In the
famous short story Bartleby is observed by those around him to be “…a little
luny…”, and invoke emotions toward his condition which range from anger in one,
to pity from the narrator. However he is perceived along the way he is steadfast
in his desire to withdraw from all endeavors be they social or work related. This
insolence toward aid shows a very common coping mechanism employed by those
filled with melancholy. Just as my
friend had withdrawn from the world to his home Bartleby withdraws in the best
way in which a homeless person can, socially. He seems not unlike a drone going
through the paces but resolved to a fatalistic outlook toward his future.
The website WebMD list signs of
depression which include appetite loss and loss of interest in activities once
found pleasurable just as described by the author in the story. In the end we are sadly enlightened to the
fact that we are sometimes powerless to assist those who themselves don’t see
the possibility that their situation can be improved upon. If only poor Bartleby had a father equipped
with compassion, tenacity and a screwdriver so to speak, maybe his death could
have been prevented. I urge all who may read this to educate themselves as to
the warning signs of depression and ask yourself if you might be witness to a silent cry for help. For more information on what to look for follow the following link : http://www.webmd.com/depression/guide/detecting-depression
I like that you gave an excellent example that goes along with Melville's writing. Your example about your friend shows that a lot of people go through depression in their lives and that maybe work is a big factor. Like Bartleby, his job was a big influence on him and how he perceived himself and others. Bartleby is a good example for many people who live that same life and need a change.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing this personal experience. I often consider Bartleby to be victimized by depression, yet have doubts. I appreciate your delving into this perspective. Which thesis are you building your writing around? Maybe you can empathize with the narrator more than others due to watching your friend's painful process of coping.
ReplyDelete